I've always loved people and I've always put a high value on the people who touch my life, but now I see everyone through different eyes. I greet complete strangers differently. I smile more at the people I pass on the street. I am more apt to talk to someone I don't know. And I long to touch every life I can while I am here.I find myself longing for human contact. I can only go so long in an isolated state. Sometimes I love being alone, but those times don't last long and they aren't common! Mostly, I want to laugh with friends, eat with family, and see people I rarely get to. I look for opportunities to meet old friends for lunch and have dinner with new ones. And I look for ways to make acquaintances, even though its not easy for someone who's naturally shy like I am.
As much as I dislike doctor's appointments, I enjoy knowing my doctors. And I love any opportunity out there to get to know someone.
So - here's one of the grains of wisdom I've gleaned from my most recent introduction to my mortality: when all is said and done, when we are at the end of our days, it's the relationships we have and the people in our lives who will be our comfort and joy. That, and my relationship wit God, are the things that I'll spend the rest of my days nurturing. The rest...well....it's just stuff. And who needs stuff?
2 comments:
when I retired from the Navy,lo these many years ago, it is traditional to give a little speech.
I delivered mine and the main point I tried to stress was it was the paople that made the Navy ! I miss all the people I had contact with. Some good ,some bad but always interesting.
Lessons can be learned from anyone !
I've always been a 'people person'...and I don't think we can ever have too many friends. They say the way to have friends is to be one. I believe that, and I believe, Barbara, that you're one of the best at practicing that motto. You're a good example...and thanks for another great post!
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